28 July 2008
15 July 2008
14 July 2008
Get a whiff
Exhaust (car, taxi, scooter and bus),
Tobacco,
Raw onions,
Dust,
Poop (dog and cow),
Roasted corn and nuts,
Nagchampa,
Sea air,
Fresh flowers,
Hot, wet garbage,
Rotting leaves,
Ginger and other cooking spices,
Public urinal,
Chai,
and of course, body odor.
A few of these smells were subtle, but most of them were utterly overwhelming. Walking down the street in Bombay is difficult. Despite being a little more confident in crossing the road, it hasn’t gotten much easier in seven months. You have to be very alert while walking. Otherwise you’ll step in dog poop or in a pothole (or in some of the more rubbley areas you’ll be surprised by stepping out of the predominant pothole), or you’ll get run over by a bicycle, or you’ll take a deep inhalation just as an exhaust-spewing bus hurtles past, or while not realizing you’re down-wind of the urinal or the garbage bin. It’s a sensory challenge, and very exhausting. And take it from me, this is one situation where deep, yogic breathing is not helpful.
03 July 2008
June Holiday, July Monsoon
Before we left it was deadly hot here in Mumbai. Now the monsoon is upon us. After my return it was clear for a few days, a bit overcast but not rainy. Then it poured for three days straight. I almost felt like I was back in Wales as I sat in our flat, curled up with a book and listening to fat raindrops pelt the windows. But the air here is decidedly more humid and the rains smell different. It’s nice to see the trees washed clean of dust for a chance. But the water on the streets is something to contend with. One day this week only about 20 percent of John’s colleagues made it into the office because commuting was too difficult. Luckily we live on a hill. After a day of hard rain though, the downhill streets in our neighborhood were covered with rushing water, with little waterfalls over the curbs and, no joke, rapids. But overall the trend seems to be short downpours off and on rather than steady pouring like we saw this week. At least its nice and cool now!
22 May 2008
Chowpatty Beach
These mats outside the food stalls are actually serviced by wait staff. They're beach restaurants. See the menu?
The man swinging from the top of this ride is powering it with nothing but his own weight and the help of gravity. There are about three guys to the wheel and they take turns spinning it.
The food and drink is a big attraction to Chowpatty Beach. You can smaple the delicacies of Mumbai street food:
If you're hot you can cool down with a technicolored ice slush:
But I prefer fresh mango juice from Bachelor's, the famous juice stall across the street:
15 May 2008
Om...
Samantha is a good instructor who leads a challenging practice. My ability and love for yoga have grown a lot, even in working with her a short time. Her focus is on the asanas, the body positions, which doesn’t seem all that common with other yogis here in Mumbai. Some of the other branches of yogic practice—breathing, meditation, etc.—get a lot more attention here than in the U.S. (Which is quite cool. Walking down Marine Drive the other night we saw a man sitting in lotus, pinching his nostrils shut in an alternating rhythm.) So although Samantha’s classes are familiar to me, who was introduced to yoga in the west with our focus on the body, she does incorporate breathing exercises and chanting into all of her classes. I think this is quite rare in the U.S., although some of my readers could correct this assumption of mine if I’m wrong.
But like many Mumbaikers, Samantha is taking a short vacation during the end of May, after which she is actually setting up shop in her own space. No more traveling all over town to teach classes. And the studio will be quite close to our flat which I’m happy about. But I will definitely miss practicing at the idyllic bungalow! Om…
Mango Season
08 May 2008
Bombay Reading List
A Fine Balance by Rohinton Mistry is an extremely moving and well-written novel that explores the lives of the city’s poor immigrants, the living they make, the hardships they face, the people they meet and their ability to navigate the gray areas between hope and despair. The novel tells the story of two tailors who immigrate to Bombay during The Emergency years of the nineteen seventies. They find work with a young Parsi widow and befriend her tenant, a young engineering student. As they struggle to live in the sometimes welcoming, sometimes terrifying city of Bombay. If you enjoy this book, check out A Family Matter also by Mistry. This novel gives a rich depiction of Parsi life in 1970s Bombay. There are some very memorable scenes involving religion, superstition, bureaucracy, and community and mob mentality. In both novels Misty thoroughly and memorably depicts life in Bombay, the city becoming almost another character in the stories.
If you enjoy magic realism (in the vein of Murakami, Garcia Marquez, et al) like I do, then I recommend Midnight’s Children by Salman Rushdie. It is the story of Saleem Sinai, born at midnight on August 15, 1947, the exact date and time of India’s independence. The coincidence of his birth links Saleem inextricably to the birth and trajectory of the young nation. The special hour of his birth also has unexpected consequences: he is given telepathic powers that allow him to communicate with all of “midnight’s children” born in the initial hour of India’s independence. As Rushdie lets Saleem tell his story, he paints a picture of post-partition India and Pakistan that is both serious and comedic. I just finished this novel and really enjoyed it, often chuckling aloud at the clever observations and dark humor of this fantastical tale. (On a personal note, I especially enjoyed reading it while living here in Mumbai as Rushdie references many places and events that I have experienced myself. Saleem grows up just up the road from our neighborhood in Breach Candy and thus references many of the landmarks that John and I use to orient ourselves on a daily basis.)
Baumgartner’s Bombay by Anita Desai is the story of Hugo Baumgartner, a German-born Jew who, after leaving his home country, finds a home of sorts in Bombay. Always an outsider, Baumgartner is closest to his many adopted cats, and his only routine task is scavenging in the city and visiting tea shops to collect scraps for them. His sole human confidante is Lotte, an ex-cabaret dancer and German expatriate, until he unexpectedly meets a young German hippie whose presence in his life has profound results. Desai is an incredibly talented writer who is able to string words together in moving and delightful ways. I highly recommend her books to anyone who dapples in writing—there is a lot to learn from reading her work. Her descriptions of Bombay are very vivid and her characters complex and believable. ( I also recommend her novel Clear Light of Day, a character-driven story which takes place in the outskirts of Delhi.)
Of course I feel obligated to mention Shantaram by Gregory David Roberts. This adventure tale of an escaped Australian convict navigating the Bombay underworld is immensely popular with travelers here. You can’t go a week without seeing a well-thumbed copy in the hands of some backpacker carrying an overstuffed rucksack. This fast-paced tale is semi-autobiographical but officially labeled a work of fiction. At the risk of sounding snobbish, I have to admit that I was not as enamored with this book as many people I’ve talked to were, and in fact I didn’t even finish it. I found the writing style a bit amateurish and personally I don’t have much patience for pop-philosophizing which seeps up through the tale from time to time. That said, there is always a time and place for a quick and easy adventure book, and in conversation I hear more rave reviews than harsh criticisms. And if you’re one of those people who has to read the book before seeing the movie, now is the time to pick up Shantaram. Word on the street is that Johnny Depp has bought the rights to the story and hired an Indian director to shoot the film starring Depp in the lead role.
So if you have some free time or are looking for a good read, check out some of these Bombay novels. And feel free to post your reviews as comments on this page. I would love to hear the impressions of other readers!
03 May 2008
It's the Heat AND the Humidity
We do have an air conditioner in our flat, but most of the time a ceiling fan on high is enough to keep us comfortable at home. But I think of all the people who live and work without even the luxury of a ceiling fan…what do they do? Well, they sweat. They’re just hot. And it’s okay. We have a tendency to want to over-heat and over-cool ourselves when we get a little uncomfortable. Needless to say, the fancy hotels and high-end restaurants here are absolutely frigid. But for the banana man and chaiwallah who set up shop outside St. Elizabeth Hospital down the street, a blue plastic tarp is enough to provide some relief from the midday heat. Suspended from the wall and supported by two long sticks, a simple shady lean-to provides enough relief that they still sip that piping hot chai! Though when the sun sets in the evening and the breeze starts to pick up off of the Arabian Sea, all of Mumbai lets out a nice long sigh.
30 April 2008
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Mumbai Photos
Walking from our place down Marine Drive. Smog, mmm.
Mumbai has the largest slum population in the world. About half of its 20 million people live in communities like this:
Rickshaw:
Lack of facilities can be a problem:
24 March 2008
Let the Music Take You
Last month our Akanksha class learned about space. The kids learned about the Milky Way, the Solar System and its nine/eight planets, famous Indian astronauts and so on. When the kids found out that we were going to take a field trip to the Nehru planetarium they were ecstatic. Most of the kids had huge smiles, a few let out excited screams, and one kid, Ravindra, started dancing. He jumped up from the mat, put his hands in the air, closed his eyes and started shaking his hips and shoulders without shame. It was wonderful.
Dancing is big here. All of the Bollywood movies have musical interludes that may or may not have anything to do with the plot of the movie. The choreography, costumes, singers (all of the songs are lip-synced), etc. take up most of the budget of any Bollywood film. The songs saturate all of the radio stations, are set as ringtones on cellular phones and are sung by people of all ages and classes. All of the songs have their own exaggerated dance moves. I know, it sounds ridiculous and to me it kind of is. But here this Bollywood song and dance is the coolest of the cool in pop culture. Thus the boys in my class sing Om Shanti Om and imitate Shah Rukh Kahn’s shoulder-shaking and hip-swiveling.
In February John and I were invited the sangeet of a friend of a friend. A sangeet is a traditional pre-wedding musical celebration. I’m told that in a lot of families it is a more informal night of energetic eating and dancing. But the one we went to was something different all together. When we entered the hall of the hotel there were a few women wearing extravagant sequined saris doing a choreographed dance on a stage at the front of the hall. We quickly learned that these were in fact family members of the bride and groom who had most likely been practicing for months to get these moves down. The couple happily danced too, and got married the next morning. (It was an arranged marriage, which is still very common here, a norm in many communities, and a different entry altogether.) Some folks danced along in the crowd and we were told that by the end of the night, most of them would have gotten on stage as some point to dance, either something they had planned, or because the music took them spontaneously. It was quite a sight, and actually very refreshing to see uninhibited middle-aged people dancing poorly but confidently in front of hundreds of others who couldn't get enough of it.
25 February 2008
Acclimation
When people climb Mt. Everest they have to do it in stages. The most important place on that mountain isn’t always the top, but the base camp. The people climb up a bit then climb back down and do some adjusting to the altitude. Then they climb up a bit higher and then back down to a new base camp at a slightly higher altitude. You can’t just sprint to the top of a mountain because the environment is so radically different that it’ll kill you.
Sometimes I think moving to India feels a little like climbing a mountain. If I sprinted into a life here, just dove into all of the new things at once, I don’t think I’d make it. It wouldn’t kill me, but it would be pretty emotionally dangerous. Living in Mumbai is hard. Really hard. There are a lot of beautiful things about this culture and this city, but a lot of things are draining, frustrating and heart wrenching. I’ve realized that all of the differences and difficulties of India, combined with the everyday challenges of moving to any new place, will require a long period of acclimation. I wasn’t wholly willing to accept that at first. My fears about moving here manifested in my putting unreasonable pressure on myself to see things, do things, get settled, and most importantly like everything here. How naïve! My expectations were totally unreasonable and I’ve ended up in a pretty emotionally vulnerable position.
So I’m climbing back down and setting up base camps: our apartment, Priyadarshni park, the local bookshop, yoga class, Akanksha. I venture out from those places realizing that I can climb back down into their comfort for a few days at a time. Next I hope to build up some more relationships here that become sort of comfort zones—real friends outside of John and my own mind. I know I might not ever feel really comfortable during our stay here, but I hope that by paying attention to acclimation at least I’ll be able to breathe better.
20 February 2008
The Gathering Tree
04 February 2008
Young at Heart
In January there was a festival called Makar Sankranti, which has something to do with astrological phenomena, something about the sun, and a planet changes houses…I don’t really know much about the origins of the festival because what everybody talks about and gets excited about are the kites. On Makar Sankranti everyone goes up to the rooftops of their buildings or to the parks, or even just to the streets, and they fly kites. My young friends invited me to spend the afternoon kite-flying with them, and it was great fun. The kite-flying here is competitive. The small paper kites are flown on very thin, sharp strings, and people from one building try to cut the strings of neighbor buildings with their own kites. When they are successful, they shout and laugh and sing. Here are a few pictures of the kids and views from our rooftop:
I have been volunteering for some time now with a group called Akanksha, which has introduced me to another whole group of kids age 8-10. Akanksha helps to educate “underprivileged” children. Unlike the children in my building, these kids do not learn English in their municipal schools, so Akanksha focuses on teaching English. I go to one of the 25 centers around Mumbai every morning and spend a few hours tutoring in grammar, reading and writing. Math, Values and other basic skills and knowledge are also a part of Akanksha’s curriculum, so I help in those areas too. But the best thing about it is that it provides a safe, fun place for these kids to go for a few hours in the morning or afternoon. Take a look at the organization’s website if you’re interested: http://www.akanksha.org/. I know I will have a lot to write about these kids and my experience working with them during my time here.
27 January 2008
Kittens Make Me Happy


Adorable! The kittens and their scampering clumsiness remind me of baby Howard (my pet cat who is now living with my parents. I adpoted him when he was just about the same size as these little ones.) Really, these kittens are some of the best friends I have here in India. But I don't dare name them because I know one day they'll be big enough or bold enough that they won't turn up at my window. Until then, I'll just swoon over them like a little girl.26 January 2008
She's Conspicuous
For a while, feeling so conspicuous was making me paranoid. When I’d go for walks I’d feel like groups of people were talking about me or laughing at something about me as I passed. This is ridiculous, I know. But going on walks is one of the few remotely interactive pastimes that I have after I finish up my volunteering sessions for the day. I don’t like feeling so solitary and uncomfortable just going for a walk, which is normally one of my favorite activities. Really, I have this urge to go to the chai wallah on the corner, buy a cup, and squat down on my haunches and sip it while all the other men gathered there go about their business. This will never happen though, because no matter how long I live here, no matter that the chai wallah sees me walk by every day, I’ll always be a white woman. My approach alone, whether I order a chai or not, is a total conversation stopper. Though I'm not up to hanging out with the chai-sippers yet, I’m learning that the best way to handle the staring is to walk confidently with a faint smile on my face, sometimes making eye contact and offering a smile of greeting—most people beam back, or say hello. A few more weeks and hopefully I’ll be able to find going out for a walk a more pleasurable experience.
But again, it’s different in the tourist area where there are more beggars and hawkers. There its best to avoid eye contact or you’ll be followed for 20 yards by men selling ridiculous things you would never need or want, like silly little drums, laminated maps, or huge balloons. Or you’ll meet eyes and be followed by little children in rags or women carrying babies, trying to keep walking, trying not to look while a lump of guilt sits in your throat. Zuber says the beggars don’t get to keep most of the money they collect. He says that there is usually someone behind the scenes that organizes the beggars and offers them “protection,” then charges most of their collections for these “services.” Seeing some of these people, though, is when it is hard for me not to stare—especially when there are little children, barefoot with matted hair and swollen bellies, or people crawling on their shriveled limbs, or waving the stump of an arm.
Being conspicuous also has the strange result of being asked to take photos with a lot of people. Yesterday I walked from my flat to Chowpatty beach and as I sat on the public beach reading the newspaper, I was asked by three different people to take a photo with them. The day before at my favorite local gathering place, Priyadarshni Park, a group of women and their children wanted their picture taken with me. A quick snap on a camera phone is one thing, but two of these people used up a frame of actual film! I don’t get it…the only thing I can thing of is that it has something to do with everyone’s innate desire to gawk at things they find disturbing or freakish, and to be able t prove that they saw it to their friends. I just wonder how many random photo albums I’ll end up in over the course of our stay here.
04 January 2008
Another Bunch of Photos from December
This is Jaipur, called "The Pink City" after the pinkish wash on the buildings in the old center. As you can see, motorcycles are a very popular mode of transportation in India. I think Jaipur had the craziest traffic of any city I've ever been to. Worse than Mumbai traffic because of the sheer diversity of vehicles, people and animals occupying the road. Though it looks calm in this photo, the streets are normally crowded with cars, trucks, buses, motorcycles, autorickshaws, bicycle rickshaws, bicycles, carts pulled by oxen or camels, pedestrians and the occasional elephant. Put all of these in a roundabout, and you've got trouble.
You can see the reddish-pink of the walls better in this photo, taken from inside Jaipur's City Palace. The palace was built by the Maharaja of Jaipur, its namesake Jai Singh.
Fun fact: This is the largest silver object in the world. When Jai Singh traveled to England, he brought along his own water supply, river water from the Ganges, in this huge urn.
In the hills above the city stand three forts. Yes, we saw many-a-fort on this trip. These weren't particularly well-maintained, but they provided a nice view of the valley and the city itself. Here's a shot from fort one:
This is the view of the town of Amber from the Amber fort and palace. Some tourists opt to ride an elephant to the top of the hill rather than climbing up to the fort on foot.
Some fellow tourists enjoying a picnic at Amber palace:
Some women on a crew doing restoration work on the palace. Like most of the construction I've seen done in India, things are done largely by hand with hand tools.
The third of the palace forts provides a panoramic view over Jaipur. You can see very far, despite the smog.